Life's a Stitch

For Father's Day an observation regarding today's dads. So different from the Leave it to Beaver days, much more involved. The non-profit for which I work includes Childcare Resource and Referral services. We have an increasing number of fathers taking responsibility for day care arrangements. 

So one day, I'm on a crowded bus. Two guys, in their thirties were standing in the aisle immediately in front of me, their conversation plain as day.

"Hey, how's the little guy?"

"Almost a year now, we have to find daycare."

Thinking to myself: we're so fortunate to live in a country with a year of paid maternity leave. 

"That's a big job."

All I could do not to whip out a business card.

"We have a list of four, the first three weren't so good. The fourth is way across the railroad tracks, we're going there tomorrow."

A list? That's encouraging, they've already used our services. I've probably seen them in the office.

Dad continues, "All I want is for him to feel secure and not stressed."

Wow you get good Daddy points.

"Yeah, I know what you mean."

A pregnant pause and a sigh.  

"And how's your dog doing?"

Honest to God they were talking about dogie daycare. Thank goodness I didn't give them my card. I guess doggie dads have changed, too.