It's been a challenging year. We just need some time to catch up with life and our yearly holiday traditions were adding to the pressure. I've always been an advocate of separating the meaning of Christmas from the hype on a bi-yearly basis and this year we're doing it. No cooking, no tree and no presents. Instead we made plans for an escape. Once the decision was made I felt released from a tremendous weight. Only the most basic Christmas decorations came out – my little ceramic Christmas Tree:

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and the Nativity, my original olive wood set from my single years, with a stable constructed by Chuck and little ones and some lovingly added mismatched additions:

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It wouldn't be Christmas without it.

Of course a unique set of circumstances helped make our exit possible – the agreeable kids of a reasonable age, the cancellation insurance from C's interrupted trip, someone willing to come in and keep an eye on things. So we're off to Honduras for a week. A tiny little town on a great big beach. We'll see what good we can get into.

Feliz Navidad!

(PS for those looking for my pattern. Please leave a comment and I will e-mail it to you next week.)

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17 responses to “Opting out”

  1. Chrissy Avatar
    Chrissy

    Good for you! It takes courage to make a change, especially where family is involved. I should take lessons from you. Have a wonderful holiday vacation!

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  2. Jane Avatar

    Have a great vacation!

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  3. Dorothy Avatar

    This probably won’t catch you before you go, but Merry Christmas! I heartily applaud your concept. We didn’t exactly make a conscious decision this year, but things worked out in a similar vein. We went with a tiny live tree with minimal decoration, the Nativity set and that’s it. Presents were kept to a minimum and a donation was made to Heifer International. Hubby wanted to buy a Knitting Basket (2 llamas and 2 sheep) and I thought that was very appropriate. For the past 5 days we’ve been stranded at home and it’s amazing the peace that comes with that. Blessings on you, Chuck, Gracee and family.

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  4. Marina Avatar

    Guess you’ve got all the right ingredients! Funny how no matter where I was, Christmas/Santa always caught up 😉
    Hope you have a fabulous vacation! And I want to pics of any signs of Christmas there.

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  5. Awesome Mom Avatar

    Have fun on your trip! Merry Christmas.

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  6. Angie Avatar

    Hope you take Chuck this time. And that someone looks after things (Gracie) to her standards. Wishing you good wishes.

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  7. Kelly Avatar

    I have a ceramic tree just like that! Except I just have red and green lights and no “snow”.

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  8. Karen Avatar

    Good for you! Have fun!
    I stopped decorating for Christmas a few years ago. I haven’t missed it yet.

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  9. Kathy Avatar

    Feliz Navidad! Have a wonderful trip!

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  10. Judy K Avatar
    Judy K

    Hi, hope you have a wonderful time

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  11. Elaine Avatar
    Elaine

    Love your blog. My first time visiting. Enjoy your trip. Would love a copy of your Herringbone Rib Scarf Pattern. Thank you and happy new year!

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  12. Uli Avatar

    I hope you’re having a wonderful escape. that’s sometimes the best you can do.

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  13. Jessica Avatar

    I love all of your work! I would love it if you would send me the Herringbone Rib Reversible Scarf pattern! I LOVE it!

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  14. Maria Avatar
    Maria

    love the herringbone rib pattern~

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  15. Christi Avatar
    Christi

    Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
    I’d also like to request the herringbone rib pattern. Thanks!

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  16. Kristi Avatar
    Kristi

    Feliz Ano Nuevo! (and a belated Merry Christmas too).
    I hope you enjoyed a fabulous and relaxing time. Please send me the herringbone rib pattern when you have a chance to get caught up!

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  17. viki Avatar
    viki

    Gracee is an adorable dog, im sure she has more talents to show us, maybe she knits too?
    I enjoy your posts and would like to try the herringbone rib scarf pattern. at your convenience of course.
    thank you

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