Life's a Stitch

And more recently life’s a creative adventure with some travel thrown in.

Not the Debbie kind, you knitters, but the extreme happiness variety, a spiritual joy maybe. I gave my niece and her new husband a wedding card, one I picked up on the run, with the improbable message: Love, bliss, forever. Being the practical godmother to this child, I wrote on the inside “Probably not bliss, but love forever.” Here’s the happy couple:

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This sentiment provided good fuel to the discussion fire at several vacation social events this past week. What’s your bliss was the opening question.Of course we had to set some ground rules as it became evident that many were drug and sex induced blissful experiences. So, no chemical or sexual pleasure allowed, what was your experience of bliss, your magical moment?

The concept was defined. Perhaps bliss could be felt in the experience of great relief or joy, second chances when none were expected. Some blissful feelings were calm, spiritual or profoundly grounding. Many were related to nature and travel – long afternoons, letting down on a tropical beach drinking red wine accompanied with a chocolate baguette.  Some were childhood experiences – running so fast in new shoes, so special the wearer felt he was the fastest person on earth. Nobody could ever beat him.

Have you come up with something? The one moment you wanted to go on forever? Or are you thinking what were these nutcakes drinking?

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10 responses to “Bliss”

  1. Chris Avatar

    Bliss – for me? Debbie Bliss does come to mind, I love her stuff. But the emotional Bliss? The first moments in the hospital while holding my newborn daughters. Each had their own special time, but I remember the first one more. The second one was a very nauseous event! But still the Bliss with that delivery was watching Big Sis experience Little Sis.

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  2. toni in florida Avatar

    I agree with Chris. My most clear moments of bliss were indeed when I held my two little ones (now 18 and 12) for the first time. Luckily I wasn’t doped up or being stitched or anything like that, so I could really be in those moments. I’ve also experienced it when listening to music that moves me or when performing or when standing backstage. These are times when my heart has been so full and right and, well, blissful.

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  3. Angie Avatar

    I felt the heavens open and the angels sing when I held my first baby.
    Another type of bliss is on the beach in Kaui, writing reading and musing in the shade beside the house that should be mine, while my husband enjoyed his boogie board in the water. My first (and only) surfing lesson knocked me out. It sounds like the edges of exertion and relaxation.

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  4. Lorette Avatar

    Bliss? Waking up next to my husband every morning. And having dinner by candlelight every evening. Yes, we’re corny.
    And having a baby sounds anything but blissful, but that’s probably why I have none of my own. 🙂

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  5. Dorothy Avatar

    Although there have been many happy moments in my life, some like my wedding were colored by nervousness and others, such as the birth of my son were colored by a great deal of physical discomfort. For me – the moment I remember of true bliss was when I walked into a tiny apartment in England and watched my son walk down the stairs and place his newborn daughter in my arms. Now THAT’S bliss!!

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  6. Jane Avatar

    The birth of my 2 beautiful babies and the husband who helped me make it happen! OK you can gag but that’s my bliss moment!

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  7. Heather Avatar
    Heather

    I would like a copy of your scarf pattern. I hope this is where to leave a comment.

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  8. Rosie Avatar
    Rosie

    blissful monents at my wedding were dancing with my Dad to the song (his choice) My Wild Irish Rose. We all thought it was the perfect song. More bliss is giving birth to my two boys and special moments when we tell each other we love each other or enjoy time together. I also loved when Tony surprised me on our fouth anniversary as we dressed for work by telling me to turn my back and then him putting on a strand of lapis beads for me to wear that day.
    By the way the new hot tub will be here by end of the month. Yea.

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  9. Lynne Avatar

    Li, I have missed you these past several weeks! Is there bliss that is not drug or sex induced? Because I’m thinking the ultimate bliss wss probably when sex was drug induced!
    Let’s see, though, now that I”m a good girl, my bliss moments are when I am singing in a choir…when all of the sounds of all the parts feel like they are coming from inside of me. ( no, that is not a hallucination…if it were, I could SEE the notes coming out of my mouth)

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  10. Sharon Avatar

    Ditto all the baby comments. When I see my daughter-in-law nursing my granddaughter, I want to go back to those moments.
    Other than that, I’ve had true bliss while dancing. Hip pain is now spoiling those blissful moments, but for me, dancing with a great partner to great music has been magical.

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