Img_1631_2I was one of those bright eyed young feminists of the the 70’s. I was going to raise my sons and daughters equally, because you know, there’s no difference between the two. Life has taught me differently. If you’ve spent time with me you are familiar with my saying that I’ve had two girls and a shock. A shock, not because he was a surprise – he was very well planned – but because he was so different from the girls.

When the driveway was 30% done, Blogless Marsha very generously left her husband behind, leaving me to live in a house of men. Throughout the day I was gently reminded that there are indeed differences. Yes, that would be a duct taped cereal bag. I might have approached that situation differently. Or have I been brainwashed by the Tupperware parties of my past?

The men have displayed tremendous fortitude, continuing their bricking in gale force winds and torrential rain. It gave them opportunity to incorporate a hundred feet of "big O" drainage pipe into the plans. Yes, it’s called "big O," probably named by a man. I have a different interpretation of the term "big O."

Pictures from the weekend include a gift from Marsha (one of my favourite scarf kits in fall colours), the driveway at 60%, a whimsical addition to our Thanksgiving table, and the mascots – Riley checking around the corner in hopes the coast is clear of alpha female Gracee, and Grace with serious bedbeard:

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15 responses to “I concede – there IS a difference”

  1. Jane Avatar

    Is that a wine glass holder or a statue of a scotttie peeing on the wine glass? Love Gracie’s bedbeard! Oh and the drive looks marvolus! Speaking of men being different, my 2 went camping over the weekend and got washed away by the rain. One was unpacking thier food. Canned mac and cheese, beanie weanies and slim jims. If it was us girls it would have been ingredients for camp stew, wine(for me) and fresh corn on the cob to roast over a fire. Talk about diffrent!

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  2. eyeleen Avatar

    The drive looks great. I love the cute little scottie on the table and Gracie is adorable.
    What is it about men and duct tape? It’s like a cure all for almost anything, although this is the first time I’ve seen it on a cereal bag.

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  3. sherry Avatar

    The driveway looks great!!
    oh, having a boy and hubby, well no daughters just my female pets. LOL.
    well I can imagine its very different!!
    Though I have tried my best, they both do their own laundry :-

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  4. Crazy For Yarn In Alabama Avatar

    Driveway looks “Big O” inspiring!!! LOL!!! Kudos to the guys for all their hard work and “ingenuity” both outside AND inside!! LOVE the mascot pics!!!! Nothing any sweeter than bed beard!!!

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  5. Beth Avatar

    The driveway looks great – won’t it be nice when it’s all done and everything settled down?

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  6. Angie Avatar

    You’re so right. Do you find it amusing that so many knitters are feminists? My sister and I were our Pa’s sons on the farm. We did all the tractors and haying and cleaning. I have laid my own Big O by his instructions.
    My husband comes from the next farm with 3 boys. There is such a difference.
    We do OK parenting our son and daughter with some equality if we don’t get too much input.

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  7. Suzanne V. (Yarnhog) Avatar

    That driveway is looking mighty fine.
    Males are so totally different. My sister (the militant lesbian) and I (the Ivy League liberal) were determined to raise our kids equally, non-violently, and gender-neutrally. Ironically, we both got only sons. Even more ironically, we have both discovered that our influence is like spitting in the ocean compared to the irresistible forces of biology and society. They are boys, no doubt about it, and nothing at all like the creatures we envisioned creating. And you know what? They’re perfect.

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  8. Kimberly Avatar

    Ahhh, men and duct tape. They are never far from one another.

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  9. sandy Avatar

    Time is getting away from me, my dear Li! I am not here in time to wish you a Happy, Wonderful, Extra Thankful Canadian Thanksgiving! I hope it was wonderful. Turkey and all….have a sandwich for me!!! Extra cranberry sauce, please!!
    🙂
    Your driveway is wonderful. And I love the wonderful table decorations! made me laugh!!! haha!
    I remember thinking the same thing, about the girl v. boy thing. My kids would play with BOTH dolls and trucks. And they did. But Bethany? Would put the baby doll in the carraige and push it lovingly around the house. Derek? Would throw the baby doll on the floor and race around and around the house with the doll carriage making racing noises.
    xoxoxo

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  10. Lynne Avatar

    Hmmm. the last time I used duct tape, it was to hold my boobs in place for a plunging neckline.
    Great paver driveway, Li. I’m just so glad you didn’t have to lay bricks, and you could just receive wonderful gifts while the men did all that work! (one of the advantages of being the “weaker” sex?????)

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  11. angelarae Avatar

    Hey! The driveway is lookin’ good! I agree with you about the boys. They are so sweet, but so different from the girls:)
    Ang

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  12. Criquette Avatar

    Your observations about living with the opposite sex are always hilarious and spot-on. And it is always so fun to see pictures of adorable Grace.

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  13. Lynn Avatar

    I’m telling you, its that Y chromosome. Throws them off. BUT that is one nice looking driveway!!

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  14. logan of so much yarn, seattle Avatar
    logan of so much yarn, seattle

    HI!
    thanks for the link to your blog! and thanks for visiting our store! i am still very curious about the herringbone rib pattern, if you could see it in your infinite kindness to hook me up with it, id be very appreciative. no hurry on this bc, as im sure you know, i have previously started projects stalking me at every turn.
    best,
    logan

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  15. lori Avatar
    lori

    Hi, I’d like to get the pattern for the scarf that is ribbed by the cactus plant. is it a herringbone pattern? My mom has been looking for something similar to this. Thanks

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