Life's a Stitch

And more recently life’s a creative adventure with some travel thrown in.

In Elizabeth Gilbert’s book, Eat, Pray, Love, there is sentence I’m dying to quote, but can’t locate it from memory. It’s about how our culture reinforces hard hard work all week and then the weekend comes and all we can manage is to sit around the house in a semi-comatose state. That about describes me, but I do semi-comatose very well. I even enjoy it.

This week it hit me on Tuesday night. Recently work has involved a lot of public speaking and that particular activity chews me up and spits me out like a flavourless, spent wad of gum. I made myself do 20 minutes on the treadmill just to be sure I was really exhausted and to justify doing nothing for the rest of the evening. This sounds terribly Type A behaviouresque, doesn’t it.

Cooked up a batch of low fat cream of broccoli soup and at 8:15 I announced that I was retiring to the spare bedroom for a glorious night of uninterrupted sleep. Nobody was allowed to knock on my door unless they were bleeding profusely. Even them, 911 would probably be a more effective approach. I obtained commitment from the boy that he would get up on his own instead of the usual drill of me begging him seven times to get ready for school. And you know what? He managed it just fine. For him, it’s not about inability to get in the morning, it’s the payoff of our daily morning battle, but that’s another post.

So, I took a night off from life. Too tired to pick up even the lightest of knitting needles, not enough energy to read, the lights were out at 8:30. Knowing  I would be no good to anyone but myself, I took advantage of an opportunity to take care of nobody but ME. I highly recommend it. There were times in my life where this wouldn’t have been possible, but I guess it’s one of the benefits of getting older.

The next day I was ready to knit again:

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13 responses to “A night off from life”

  1. Kristen Avatar

    Your body knew it was time for a break. Glad you are rested and refreshed and knitting something lovely!

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  2. Carole Avatar

    Sounds like a great night to me.

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  3. Beth Avatar

    It’s also a benefit of never getting married. 🙂 Just so ya know.

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  4. sandy Avatar

    A list for Li.
    1. I am reading that book
    2. That quote struck me as relevant in my life too
    3. I do semi-comatose well also, just so you know
    4. Bed at 8:30 sounds heavenly
    5. My son is your son
    6. My daughter does not need me to remind her of anything.
    7. Did you watch Big Night yet?
    8. My friend gave me another title that is now on my Netflix list: Local Hero. I haven’t yet seen it, but is sounds right up OUR alley!
    🙂
    9.Loving all over your sock!
    10. xoxoxo

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  5. Sonya Avatar

    When I put my three kids to bed, I tell them not to get out of bed unless they
    are bleeding profusely. That led to a reading from the dictionary for the 5yo and 7yo. My 9yo already knew the definition.

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  6. Marianne Avatar

    Sometimes you just have to listen to what your body tells you and take a good rest !
    Like your scarf, sure knits up a lot faster than the Midwest Moonlight I am doing (the one that has been in the closet for the last 2 months)

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  7. angelarae Avatar

    Your scarf is looking way cool. My son (17) and I also have this battle. I’m thinking of resorting to cold water once or twice. Maybe that will cure it.
    Back to my own comatose state.
    Ang

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  8. Lynn Avatar

    Good for you for taking that time for yourself. I do that as well, some days I am just so tired, I am no good to anybody so why bother? And that bleeding profusely?? I use that same term!! Apparently all moms think alike!!

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  9. Rebekah Avatar

    Sometimes just taking a break from everything is the perfect fix. I need to do that every now and then.
    Good for you for doign that for yourself!

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  10. Chris Avatar

    I just spent the weekend with Hubster in our camper at Talladega, AL doing nothing but eating, sleeping, race watching and enjoying our Anniversary weekend. Now after a night/day of packing up, travel home and unpacking, I am dog tired! I will not have enough energy to pick up needles, good thing I knit all weekend. Too bad I home where kids need help, there is no way they can get themselves to grade school and middle school without me! 8:30 is looking like a great bed time.

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  11. babette nardiello Avatar

    Good for you, I hope you do it more often. Everyone is entitled to space and re-energizing!

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  12. Crazy For Yarn In Alabama: Darlene Avatar

    Sounds like a great idea to me!!! Sometimes it is good to do absolutely nothing!!!

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  13. eyeleen Avatar

    Taking a night off osunds heavenly! I love your new scarf!

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