Life's a Stitch

And more recently life’s a creative adventure with some travel thrown in.

Sometimes life is a stitch and sometimes it needs stitches. It’s one of those times. You see, I grew up with a mother who suffers from mental illness – 40 years of it, so far. When she’s on her medication all seems well, but when she’s off, watch out! She’s off right now and I know she doesn’t have the insight to help herself, so I pray that I’m able to manage by long distance. She was supposed to move near me last year, but changed her mind. I was very disappointed as I know her life needs stitches from time to time and it was going to be difficult and complicated if she didn’t come. I just didn’t think it would happen so soon.  Wish me luck. My mom was the one who taught me to knit in Brownies when I was six. That’s a nice memory.

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19 responses to “Life needs stitches”

  1. Karen, s-i-l Avatar
    Karen, s-i-l

    Sorry to hear about your Mom, Li. Extra prayers are with you and her… Love

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  2. Dorothy Avatar

    I’m so sorry you have to go through this. But how lucky your mom is to have a daughter like you! I’m glad you have happy memories. She gave you a real gift (besides the obvious – LIfe!).

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  3. Renee Avatar

    So sorry to hear about your mom! Hang in there.

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  4. Brenda Avatar

    Thinking of you right now too Li.

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  5. Beth Avatar

    Hold on to those precious memories. You, your mom and the rest of your family are in my thoughts and prayers … and stitches.

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  6. Jill Avatar

    Nothing worse than being far away from those we love when they need us the most. You both are in my thoughts. Maybe a knitted shawl would help your mom a bit? ;o)

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  7. Nadia Avatar

    My mom also suffers from a mental illness and there have been some really rocky times. We also make it through, though; I know you guys will too.

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  8. heather Avatar

    Li – Wishing you strength and a little extra positive energy to make it through these trying times

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  9. Lorette Avatar

    I’m sorry to hear about your mom’s illness. It’s enough of a struggle to have to deal with that at all, much less long distance. Wishing you luck, and sending some good thoughts as well.

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  10. Rebekah Avatar

    My thoughts are with you.

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  11. Maureen Avatar

    Sorry to hear about your mom’s illness and all that you are having to deal with right now. I hope everything works out for the best for all concerned.

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  12. Chris Avatar

    Prayers are with you. May you find light in her tunnel for yourself.

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  13. Jane Avatar
    Jane

    Li…You are not alone. My prayers are with you and me as I am the one closer and have done the best that I can do being a working mother and having 3 jobs ( actually make that 4 ..being a Mom is a full time job) I am in need of some “stitches” myself lately but that will have to wait untill we can get Mom back on track. Love you…… your little sister

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  14. Karen Avatar

    My mom also suffers from mental illness. It is not easy. I hope things get better for everyone real soon!

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  15. sandy Avatar

    Oh, Li. I am sending some good thoughts for strength. For you. I know you will need them. I have a dear Aunt with the same story. Meds, great life. No meds, challenging life. And there is always a time when she decides she is “cured” and doesn’t need the meds anymore, despite being a smart woman and “knowing” the contrary.
    It is hard.
    xo

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  16. Rosie Avatar
    Rosie

    Hi Li. If you come to Connecticut we can visit. Tell Mom to make arroz con pollo and I will be there. Put your worry and fear in God’s hands.
    Love and prayers, Rosie
    PS: Is Mars still in retrograde or WHAT!!!!! The teenagers are driving me nuts here.

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  17. NessieNoodle Avatar

    Many well wishes to you and to your mom. Mental illiness is such an amazing thing to deal with, my family deals with it as well. good thoughs to you ~

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  18. Tam Avatar

    Hang in there, Liz!

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  19. Lynne Avatar

    I think the hardest thing has to be being the mom to a mom who is not well. Prayers of comfort for you, Li, and for healing to your mom.

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