Life's a Stitch

And more recently life’s a creative adventure with some travel thrown in.

A Shift

Lately,

Everywhere I walk,

I’m wrapped by webs.

I don’t see them

till they’ve wound

their silky way

about my face, neck and shoulders.

Before,

I would have recoiled,

flailing, terrified

of the weaver.

Now,

I luxuriate

in the delicate caress

and march forward,

strands trailing behind,

a sheer, weightless scarf.

I’m unsure

how to explain the change.

Have I come to appreciate

them

for what they are,

separate from my dread?

Do I find

their airiness

less alien

because I am lighter now

and float through days?

have I finally released

the unnecessary?

I can now

thank the weaver.

Carlyresize20copy1That was written by Carly Reid, our former summer intern at work.  Carly was diagnosed with scleroderma after her placement with us, the summer before last, and she died shortly before this Christmas at the age of 27. You can tell by the poem and the photo what a beautiful and talented person she was. We really miss her.

I’ve done some research into the shawl knitting ministry and I’ve found some Peruvian brushed alpaca to knit a shawl for her mom and a scarf for her sister. Carly spent some important time in South America and I thought it was an appropriate yarn. It’s a sad enough story as it is, but one of Carly’s sisters died a few years back in a car accident.

And today is the 35th anniversary of my Dad’s death. That’s a long time.

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8 responses to “Carly”

  1. Dorothy Avatar

    Li – what a beautiful poem! Your friend sounds so special and I think knitting for her family is a wonderful idea. 35 years is a long time – you must have lost your Dad very young. I’m so fortunate that my Dad is 80 and still going strong. Blessings on you!

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  2. Angie Avatar
    Angie

    If February is trying to catch you in her “blahs”, keep the poetry close, luxuriate in the soft touch of the yarn and those who love you, and dream of the treasures you have in the mail. Your words help to make my day good. Thanks, Angie from Sardis

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  3. Sandee Avatar
    Sandee

    What a beautiful poem by a beautiful person. That is so sad she was taken at such a young age! Her mother and sister will cherish the shawl! I lost my dad 40 years ago so know your loss — it’s always there no matter how many years go by!

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  4. sandy Avatar

    Carly was a beautiful young woman on the outside as it seems she was more beautiful on the inside, as evidenced by her beautiful poem.
    Knitting a shawl is a great idea. For you and for them!

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  5. Rosie Avatar
    Rosie

    Li, your Dad was a wonderful man. I thought so highly of him and so did my Mom.
    The poem was awesome. Love and best wishes. Rosie

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  6. Judith Avatar

    Truly a beautiful poem. One a person can feel deep inside. It is wonderful you can knit for Carly’s mom & sister, I am sure it will mean a lot to them. And 35th anniversary for your Dad–long time & not. Peace to all.

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  7. Deb Avatar
    Deb

    I’m a friend of Carly’s from school. I came across your blog be accident — though maybe it was really by fate. Thank you for sharing Carly’s words with others. She was a beautiful and talented writer, and I miss her.

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  8. Christina Avatar
    Christina

    I’m a friend of Carly’s from high school, and I too came across your blog by accident. I just wanted to thank you for thinking of her mom and sister, I know they will appreciate it. I just wanted to share one of many memories of Carly – that of her legwarmers! If you ever run out of projects to knit, maybe you could knit a pair to remember her by, although I don’t think it would be possible to ever forget her.

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