Life's a Stitch

And more recently life’s a creative adventure with some travel thrown in.

Once you have kids, the worrying never stops. Mari is driving to Calgary Stampede for a long birthday weekend. Eleven hours of driving seems a bit excessive for me, the one who doesn’t tolerate long distance driving very well.

Elina is having some health issues. In a county of socialized medicine, where things happen slowly, after some concerning blood work, next week she is scheduled in for a CT scan, two ultrasounds, a specialist visit to be followed up with a visit to another specialist. On the way out of the doctor’s office today she made a comment that next week she had to drive into town three times from her one hour away job for medial appointments. I suggested she take the week off. She explained that it wouldn’t be possible since she is taking the following week off to travel with her BF. In my mommy fashion, I told her that her health was more important. In Elina fashion, she replied, "Mother, I love you a lot, but you are so difficult," I replied, "Just wait until I’m 80."

When you raise kids, the issues don’t go away, they just change.

I’m coping by knitting away, but my photos aren’t available on my laptop. See you next week. Thank goodness my job allows us to use our sick time to tend to family member’s health problems.

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6 responses to “Mommy Worries”

  1. maureen Avatar

    How true, the issues are always different but worry is a constant. Sometimes in the background, sometimes at the fore. I hope everything turns out for the best for your daughter!

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  2. sherry Avatar

    Hope all goes well w/the daughter. You are so right, son being 20, i try to remember what I was concerned w/at that age…Not my health.. LOL.

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  3. Ellen Avatar
    Ellen

    I’m still amazed by the similarities of cousins raised on the other side of the continent from each other. I hear you sister!

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  4. Uli Avatar

    I hope everything will be fine with Elina (I love that name). I’ve done the trek to Calgary by car, by myself, (numerous times), leaving worried parents behind. Then it just seemed they worried too much now I kind of get it….
    It’s been the hardest for me in working and having a child is the utter ignorance by our employer about sick time and dealing with sick family members. I always end up taking my precious vacation days or send Erika off almost too sick to go to daycare (hoping they won’t notice – yeah right). Off my soap box.
    Have a nice weekend.

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  5. Christine Avatar

    I will be thinking of you and hope things improve! Knit on sista!

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  6. Rosie Avatar
    Rosie

    Hi Li How simple yet profound your comment about “When you raise kids, the issues don’t go away, they just change.” I am awake at this point because Patrick once in a rare while goes out with his childhood friends at 12 or 1 at night and I really worry. He sees his girlfriend earlier since she has to be home earlier. I hope Elina is okay. This job of being a mother is far less fun than when I was young and didn’t worry and was more care free about certain things. My Mom always told me that you worry from the day your children are born until you close your eyes. Boy was she right. Rosie

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