Life's a Stitch

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It was in December, the 8th or 12th, and I was in 8th Grade. I was anxious to get the Christmas lights up. We lived in a colonial style house and each year my parents would put an electric candle in each window in the front of the house. My father told me I was “rushing the season,” but if I insisted I could do it. And I wonder where my kids get it from. After school I dug out the candles and put them in place.  As I was finishing, my mother arrived home from working at Lord and Taylor with a coat for me to try on. She suggested I go outside to test the coat’s warmth as it was a windy, blustery winter evening. I went outside and had the opportunity to admire the lights in the windows.

Back inside, I could hear a sound coming from my parent’s bedroom. I asked my mother if she heard it and she said “It’s probably just the wind.” A few minutes later I heard it again and went upstairs to investigate. The entire wall of the room was engulfed in flames. By the time the fire department arrived the fire was in the walls of the house. The heat was so intense, the window glass melted. Turns out one of the candle cord was damaged and it set fire to the drapes.

That night, when my father arrived home from work, we all moved into the family room for the night. The firemen had suggested we stay in a hotel since the fire might still be in the walls. I think money was an issue so we stayed at home. I couldn’t sleep, and watched Alfred Hitchcock’s The Birds, on TV and scared myself royally.

Although my parents did a really good job of not laying on the guilt, the moral of the story from my childhood is, “Don’t rush the season.” My dad died when I was 16, but I can still hear him saying it. I don’t like the holiday hype anyway, so we don’t decorate until Christmas week. I do start the Christmas music on December 1st, though.

On a brighter note. I took this from our driveway. A rainy climate makes for good contrast.

Dsc00178_3 Back to knitting tomorrow.

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4 responses to “Rushing the Season, A Childhood Trauma”

  1. Sheila Avatar

    Now that’s a Christmas to remember! Just because you rushed the season doesn’t mean the fire was caused by it. Just think how much worse it would have been if you had waited until Christmas Eve to light the candles, and the fire had engulfed the house at night. I say it was a good thing you rushed the season.
    However, I reserve this reason not to decorate, for I have not decorated for the past two years 🙂

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  2. sandy Avatar

    Oh, MY! How awful! Good thing you insisted on checking it out!
    Enjoy your decorations when you put them up.

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  3. Rosie Avatar
    Rosie

    Li, I remember this and you talking about watching The Birds that night.
    Tony always waits until the last minute to put up the decorations and discourages me from putting up anything early. He does his shopping last minute sometimes.
    Rosie

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  4. MARQUE Avatar
    MARQUE

    What a story! I am so glad you had your father until you were 16, I lost mine when I was 4. I still have the doll he bought for me that year, her name is Merry Christmas. I don’t do much in the way of decorating for the season, something about more then one scottie just makes me feel like I don’t want to find the tree on the floor in the morning.I have scotties that like to climb trees………..

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